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Don’t lie to yourselfI’ve heard it so many times — how you want to do Aikido, and how you definitely would do Aikido,
if not for your list of insurmountable obstacles.
That’s self-deception.
You’re always doing something.
And whatever that something is —
that’s what you actually want to be doing.
Because if you really wanted to do Aikido,
you’d be doing Aikido
instead of doing whatever you're doing
instead of doing Aikido (see:
recursion).
This is a universal principle.
If you take the time to understand it — and accept it —
your life will change.
No matter what you’re doing.
Even if it’s not Aikido.
Back to Aikido and skipping class — here’s something to remember:
If you’ve already reshaped your life to include regular training two to four times a week,
and you miss one because of a runny nose
or your beloved grandma’s birthday —
it will have almost no effect on your progress.
But if every class is preceded by a personal round of cost-benefit analysis —
if every time you lie on the couch,
you begin carefully scanning your body for possible signs of fatigue or vague discomfort,
like a kid pretending to be sick when mom tries to get him out of bed for school —
then your training will become sporadic.
And in that case, you’ll want to take a look at the next point: